Monday, April 17, 2017

Do your job match your personalities

Your work is going to fill a large part of your life, and the only way to be truly satisfied is to do what you believe is great work.
And the only way to do great work is to love what you do. If you haven't found it yet, keep looking. Dont' settle.
As with all matters of the heart, you'll know when you find it. And, like any great relationship, cheap nfl jerseys, it just gets better and better as the years roll on.
So keep looking until you find it. Dont' settle.

-- Steve Jobs -

You time is limited, so don’t waste it living someone else’s life.
Don’t be trapped by dogma- which is living with the results of other people’s thinking. Don’t let the noise of other’s opinions drown out your own inner voice.
And most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition.
They somehow already know what you truly want to become. Everything else is secondary.

- Steve Jobs -

I was stuck by a choice for almost 10 years—whether to be a CPA or not, now I have just got the answer: "No, absolutely, it’s not for me."
I am relieved.

After graduated from Uni, with no doubt, most of my friends were having a CPA program.
I was so hesitated whether I should do the same thing or not.
For a bright future and good money, cheap hats, it is absolutely essential.
But for some reasons, I truly very unwilling to follow it, and even I couldn’t tell why.
I didn’t feel really satisfied as I was empty without learning something new. I’ve got nothing to do.
Almost at the beginning of each year, I was so excited—I wanna start my CPA course.
As I admired my friends who had already passed CPA and being successful in their career for entering a better company with a higher job position.
However, I used to give up after I consulted with friends regarding whether it was necessary to do a CPA program.

The majority of them told me—No, I really couldn’t tell there’s point to do it, which discouraged me a lot.
Even one friend surprised me that she was under tremendous pressure for being a CPA and she would like retire at an earlier age.
it seems to me not many people are really enjoying being a CPA.
They might just for better money or a fancy title or looks good in front of friends and relatives.
Simply they are doing what someone else are doing or what they are supposed to do from the point view of the society.

I know I am not a person who is easily change mind because of someone else's opinion.
But this time it did, probably it matched my inner voice—no, wholesale jerseys, please don’t do it.
I remembered a few months ago, one friend encouraged me: “Hi, Sweetolive, please join me for CPA.”
I told her: “No, I won’t do it if it is just for money increase, I will only do it if I really really enjoy it.”
But it still took me a few days to think about that question: join my friend or not.
In the end, I made a decision: “No.”

I could imagine if I started a CPA program, I had to read those laws and regulations at night or weekends by giving up all things I love, then I would be so unhappy about that.
I tried very very hard for the solution which was always on my mind, but I couldn’t figure out.
In the end, I was frustrated about it for so long time by getting nowhere.

It was until recently I did my personality test, “My god, that’s it, that’s the answer I wanna hear.”
CPA doesn’t match my characters at all. That’s the reason my inner heart stopped me doing it.
My two distinctive personalities are: innovation and passion.
Innovation means: Creativity, adventure, break habits and try fresh ideas, cheap fake oakleys, happy to take risk,bold, unconventional thinkers, think big.
They don’t like repetitive, linear tasks, they can become bored and distracted if adhere to a rigid set of rules.
Passion means: create new ideas with enthusiasm, love experimenting, embrace new situations and relationships with zeal.
Now, you know if I to be a CPA, there’s nothing to do with my personalities.

CPA is all about regulations and laws, which is a kind of repetitive job; while innovative character is all about creative, adventure and new ideas.
Therefore, I don’t think I will be really happy if I am doing a job which doesn’t match my characters at all.
Though it may have a higher payment or provide better job opportunities, but that won't let my personality shine.
I enjoyed what Sally Hogshead said: rather than focus on what you do, focus on who you are.
Therefore, cheap snapback hats, what a time wasting!!! If I do start a CPA course.

In the end, I might find I am not that really fall into it, that would be like hell to me.
Now, I am still doing accounting, pretty bored sometimes, but I am making full use of the time.
My workplace is pretty flexible and relaxing.
I can take holidays whenever I like and also I can arrange my own time for doing things.
Just think about if I have a stressful CPA job, what the hell, it will make me like a robot and I have to give up writng.
For my readers, if you are a CPA, It might suits your character, so please ignore the sentence above.

Instead by following my passion, I am doing writing, though it doesn’t make money at all at the moment.
But it let me become who I am, cheap oakleys, as Sally Hogshead said: To become more successful, don’t change who you are, become more of who you are.
Writing is creative work with new ideas, you can never see through what will happen in the future.

It is an unknown world, which is full of challenge and adventure, as I have a character of risk taker, I just love it.
I probably more passionate about reading interesting books than writing itself, sometimes I couldn’t stop reading until 1:30 AM.
It is like fall in love and I really enjoy it so much.

If I study CPA, I might will fall asleep immediately because I don’t have any interest on it.
Hi, Friends, if you are at a cross roads, and you have no idea which direction to go, please don’t ask other people, as you know who you are more than anyone else.

Just pick up the things you truly love or you can't live without it.
and start doing it, cheap jerseys, you will find so much enjoyment which you can’t buy with your money.

Friday, April 14, 2017

Divorce and Marriage

Since the beginning of this year, We started to turn my house side to side, the mean one house to be sold and buy a new one where is in my same community, all about it for my daughter who lives near with us and easy to take care each other, some day later if I promote to the grandma I have to donate my loves to the next generation.
We were going to show off the one house in Wang Jing and buy the one, sounds very easy, just following the instructions from the agency. According to the policy, the owner has one house under her/his name only, and also the house has been belong to ownership over five years, then the tax of ratio is much lower than the normal one, the mean the buyer will not be paid the high tax, ok, I understood, I cooperated with the third party guy to the place where I was really headache, the house trade center, I have been to there the thousands times for the house. I never know the first step for selling has to wait three or four months later, due to the buyer who has no enough money, so they have to loan from the bank, that’s why we have to wait till the money ready for us to buy the new one.
But one thing I never know the policy with the lower tax which is for single person under my name, not for the single family, cheap jerseys, the meaning is we have to divorce each other, we cannot accept it,has it have any other choose if not, we were told the divorce is very normal thing for housing right now, but as we know the marriage is very serious in our traditional family, how come be black in the history? Till the last this Jun we had to divorce reluctant officially, surely it was the secret in the family even my daughter we have to zip our mouth.
Following the step by step tills the end of this Sept, the last order of the transfer ownership was at the date of Sept 29, everything was going to process smoothly, the mean we can remarry at the last day of the month, before National Day, it has been four months separation, surely we all believe each other, it is only for the procedure, but we all know it is not the joke. Please see the picture we got the book before October holiday, and we had the big dinner with my daughter and told her this big secret.

The National Day

 Today, it's the first day after national holiday. That means everything will go back to normal. The raining has lasted three-day at the beginning of national day, so we had to stay at home instead of going out. It's also a good method for reuniting with family, meanwhile,cheap snapback hats, taking this opportunity, I watched a whole TV series, which was very popular on the internet recently. Maybe, the reason why I'm willing to see this kind of soap operas because of bad weather outside. Fortunately, the terrible weather didn't keep on going. On the fourth day, we finally can enjoy the sunshine outside, we didn't choose to go on a short trip this time, just spending two-day with kids in amusement park, if we didn't care too many people, it will be a good practice for promoting relationship with my little son. But, it seems that it's impossible to enjoy too much happiness especially among public holidays. Because, under this circumstance, the feeling of happiness was easy to spoil by crowded people. So if you didn't have enough patience, the amusement park wasn't a good place to relax.
   As to the rest of two days,cheap oakleys, we gone to super market to buy some necessaries and enjoyed some local cuisine with friends. In a word, this was a not bad for the national day this year. The following things we should do was to involve in routine quickly.

put it down

   Put it down, three short words, releasing me from the stubborn takes over a year.
    I once thought consciousness-prevention, suppression, controlling is the way to diminish away and one day you will be healed.
    Acutually, does not work,cheap fake oakleys, the problem veiled. You never know which could manage to trigger the illusion back to track on the road it could be a single road sign or a lyric, simply and purely
    But one day, a unintentional behaviour might incidentally end up disaster, not complex as your thought, but you know clearly that it is gone. It is gone with your unwillingness which had been lingering tied tightly round your neck.
    I enjoy that moment, being unburdensome and relaxed. I acknowledge the following void not good feeling, but it should be the end.
   Hope, i will meet a guy, the same style hope it works.

Mobike in the city

Mobike is not the new thing in Beijing now, after check the internet, since this year it is the second city of Beijing can see Mobike everywhere in the street, the first city is Shanghai I don’t know when there were. But for me it is really a new thing I just know it these days.
Frankly speaking I don’t like drive to somewhere, but sometime I have no any other choice for the daily issues,cheap nfl jerseys, even go the market for fruits or vegetables, for the heavy shopping bags I have to drive and hardly find the parking base or far away walking way, in fact walking has the half way to the home
Since the last week I went out with my daughter, we saw a bike on the corner of street; she told me this is the mobike, one hour for one yuan only, you can take to the anywhere you want and no need return to the original place that’s the common sense, surely I still have a lot of questions gona ask how to play with it, if I take to my home for my own or broken it by careless and nobody knows who did. My daughter is laugh at me and said my dear mom, everybody in the world is smart than you. Let me show you how to use it and tell you in details, cheap hats,I know she suffer her patient to say.
I believe it is the young generation period, I would like to learn new things, so I like be a student to listen, Please down load App first in the mobile, to register the nick name like other App, pay the deposit 299 for the first payment, before you go to check APP where has the bike near your location, swapping the Pin on the bike for open the key, and after finishing the trip you may close the key manually, the mean the stop the payment hourly, sounds it is really easy and reasonable price. Mobike is really convenience for the citizen, I will like it very much for sure, I may have to try one time for my blog I thought, I took the picture and happy stay with my daughter,wholesale jerseys, every time I may know the thing from her which I never know before.